The first words that came out of "Jello"'s mouth upon my late arrival last Friday night were both uplifting, expected and discouraging all at once.Jello: Guess what I forgot this time?Me: Harness?Jello: No.Me: Sleeping bag?Jello: No.Me: Gear?Jello: No.Me: Can't be important then.Jello: Not really. Just my headlamp.Me: Eh, that's OK. We've both walked down this path in the dark before. That